Sunday, May 9, 2010

A Very Special Birthday

Today is my... gasp, dare I say it...40th BIRTHDAY! I will admit to being more than a little bothered by it. 30 was great for me. Jay and I were planning our wedding which was to take place in July, and I was perfectly fine with leaving my 20's behind. 40, however has been another story. I feel, well, old...grey hairs are cropping up all over my head, I'm pretty sure my eyes are starting to go as I find myself squinting at my work lately, and I'm starting to feel aches and pains I never felt before.

However, I have decided to just go with it. I mean really, it's just a number, and my body will age whether I like it or not, so I might as well sit back and enjoy the ride. I still have so many cool things ahead of me, and I'm not dead yet, ha,ha!

It has been really a wonderful birthday!! I'll go ahead with the part you are most interested in first...the sex!! The children spent the night with their grandparents last night. Jay and I had hoped to visit the aforementioned BDSM club as they were having some sort of demonstration and free play night, however Mother Nature came calling, and we decided it was best tabled for another time.

This did not, however, prevent us from watching a little porn together until I was good and worked up and ready to suck Jay's cock. We had the freedom to do this in the den in broad daylight even! I got naked for him, save for my sexy new black, patent leather heels, bent over him with one knee on the sofa so my breasts were in full view, and swaying for him while I sucked and licked up and down his shaft. I sucked and slurped for a while, then let him pump his cock for me as I licked and sucked his balls, until he began to make his "noise" which meant I had better get his cock in my mouth before he blew. He came hard and hot and yummy in my mouth as he pumped his hips at me, and shoved my head further down his shaft.

After this, we went upstairs so he could present my "naughty" birthday present which he had obained from our dear Shelly at Shelly's Toybox. It was a beautiful little black paddle with a heart shape cut out. I have been wanting one for ever so long. I'll provide you pics and a little mini review with my next toy review.

I had no idea, however, what a stinging whallop this little thing packed! Jay had me bend over the bed naked to take my birthday spanking. I was to count out each of my 40 licks by calling out, "1, Daddy...2, Daddy." I was delighted by this little game at first. However, the licks soon came harder and harder, and I realized that damn paddle wasn't as sweeet as it looked. As we came to 15 or so, I began to squirm away from him, dreading the next blow.

As we got to the mid 20's, Jay began to fuck with me. He would ask me, "How many was that, 20?" and I would call out, "NO! 25, Daddy!" He did this to me several times, and seemed to be enjoying it quite a bit.

When we got to 29 I called out, "29, Daddy. God, I wish I was 30!" I am pretty sure I heard him chuckle behind me.

By this time, the paddling was so intense, I could feel the heat rising from my bottom, and my body was actually covered in a light sheen of sweat as I struggled to endure the next 10 blows.

When we got to 39, I was so relieved. He smacked me good, and I called out, "40, that's 40 Daddy," rising up overjoyed only to be shoved back down and told, "You need one to grow on little girl." I groaned as I submitted my bottom for one more to grow on.

Jay then took the opportunity to play with the flogger in our child free home. That actually felt much more erotic and a little less painful than the paddle. I was writhing around on the bed, moaning for more as he flogged my bottom and back.

I do have some pictures of my nice, rosy bottom to share with you, however, I am just too damn lazy to download them from the camera right now. I think perhaps I will actually do an HNT this week and shared them with you.

I also got some really great presents for my birthday and Mother's Day. I got flowers sent to me at work on Friday from Jay and the kids. Today I received homemade gifts from both daughter made a #1 Mom magnet with her picture in the middle, and my 16 year old son wrote about me in German which he read and translated for me. I also got a cool book about what was going on in the world the year I was born...1970. I also got a Wii Fit which I had told Jay I would like for my birthday.

However, by far my best present, was a twist of the right place at the wrong time sort of thing. We took one of our dogs to be groomed last Sunday. The pet adoption people were there as they are every weekend. Normally we will look and every now and then see a really cute dog, however, I am always in agreement with Jay that we already have 3 dogs and that is enough. This particular day, I find Jay holding the cutest damn chihuahua I have ever seen. I have always wanted a chihuahua, and have been bugging Jay about one for years. My daughter and I immediately fell in love with her. Long story short, it took my daughter and I about 24 hours to wear him down, but wear him down, we finally did!! I now have the cutest, sweetest, most lovable little girl chihuahua as my 40th birthday present!!


Anonymous said...

I don't know whether to be emotional because it was so awesome, or just plain hot and bothered.

Happy birthday.

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday.

bigd44 said...


Happy 40th! What are you worried about, your just a pup! The wife has her hair died about once a month. It makes her mad because I have hardly any grey, except for my gotee. Wait untill you start to get grey pubes...

Isn't it great to be able to get naked in your own house during the middle of the day! So you got a new paddle, very hot. I can't wait to see your hot sexy red ass! Does it leave heart shaped welts?

You will enjoy the Wii Fit. I don't use ours as much as I should. But it is alot of fun. I never new I had such terrible balance.

Your girlfriend is number one on the Maxim Hot 100 list!

R and D said...

Happy unbirthday. I wish you wouldn't get old. I wish my wife and I wouldn't get old. We have been plowing the ground 15 years ahead of you, but we only discovered the wonderful things sex could do for us and our relationship in the last year. It has been amazing. We wish we could go back and get a do over. Your body will slowly become your enemy and the care you need to give it will increase, the abuse you can give it will decrease. Live girl, you and Jay should live life with all the gusto you can manage and still save something for the next day. I wish you more of the good parts that life has to give.

Anonymous said...


bigd44 said...

What the hell is with the 5th comment? You seem to get these often. Do you know if other bloggers you are in touch with get these comments? Just curious

Mimi said... and bothered would be my choice :-)


Big paddle does indeed leave little heart shaped welts.

I have yet had time to use the Wii Fit but I hope to soon.

Yes, I saw my smokin' hot little Katie...hehehe!

Yeah, I need to put word verification on I guess. I just have not done it b/c it is such a pain for commenters and I only recently started getting the weird, spam like comments.

R and D...thanks for the well wishes. My body is already starting to do strange and unwanted things...LOL. Have fun plowing the ground 15 years ahead of me. You can tell me what it's like to have sex at 80 when I'm a young 65....LOL!!